• LavaPlanet@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    It’s just not as easy, for the female anatomy to get there with hand alone, really. So there’s not much option but to choose help from an external source. Do you really think people think it’s ok for women but not men to buy sex toys?

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      1 year ago

      There is more of a stigma around men buying them, if they are for personal use.

      • Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works
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        1 year ago

        There is, but I think its portrayal in media is just a portrayal of reality. Most guys who will talk about it would never bother with a fleshlight, the cleaning alone post nut just makes it a terrible idea… it’s just different anatomy, and for most guys a hand is enough and they don’t really need more, the porn does the rest.