• Em Adespoton@lemmy.ca
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    4 months ago

    I had kids so that others don’t have to.

    I like my kids, but I don’t like most other people’s kids. So yay, DINKs!

    • Vanth@reddthat.com
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      4 months ago

      So that others don’t have to? Can you elaborate on that?

      Like, I don’t subscribe to any replacement theory, not to keep social security/economy afloat, not to keep any particular race dominant over others, not so humans maintain mastery of earth and nature, nothing. I am not sure why my not having children would drive someone else to have kids. They could just… only have the kids they want and not weigh my lack-of-kids into their equation.

      • Neshura@bookwormstory.social
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        4 months ago

        strictly speaking facts a society needs to reproduce somewhere close to replacement level or above in order to have some semblance of stability, what OP likely means is that they had kids A) because they wanted them and B) because they don’t think most people make good parents. By having kids they contributed to the birth rate and therefore (hopefully) removed some unfit person’s decision to become a parent because the birth rates are horrendous. Also having kids when you can likely manage to actually raise them properly results in a lower ratio of spoiled brats in the population down the line, idiocracy sadly was very on point with the movies observation about reproduction behaviour among different education levels.