• untorquer@lemmy.world
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        29 minutes ago

        I mean, it’s the community that keeps people around. The rules and dogma push people who aren’t being served well by the community out.

        So in group this is natural to say. But external, directed at religious peoples, it’s not going to do the work of bringing them into your community. It’s not welcoming and it serves to push people to build walls rather than promote a change in thinking.

        So i think you’re right in the context of being in community with a believer, but the comment wasn’t about that to begin with.

        Alternatively, it’s hard to see how much religion is pushed until you’re outside of it. It’s like the opposite of getting a new (to you) car or phone. When you are, all of a sudden you realize how saturated everything is with it. It’s like living off the end of the runway of an international hub airport, there’s no rest.