Exactly, as you and some others mentioned in the thread, we need to be concentrating on what we can do rather than worrying about the things that are out of our control. Glad that you are in better position now and choosing the path of kindness. To be frank at times I feel all this world need is more kind souls.

I am so sorry about your cousin. Hope you and the loved ones have the strength to deal with the pain. Dont know what else to say :(

The universe may not care about me, but there are people in it who do

These are really striking words for me. Thank you !!

That is a lot of wisdom in a single comment. I am re-reading it a lot… Yay! Thanks for sharing

I think that is a good way to deal those situations. Happy that you are in a better space now… Cheers!!

Thank you!! It is really an intersting perspective. I will research more in this.

I was talking about the same randomness , as in why it was happening. As you mentioned for example having a rare disease or an accident, you could well explain it with diagnosis and reports on how it formed and what leads to it and so on. But why this is happening to certain people is not really have any control. I mean It is that randomness that we cant explain or atleast I do not understand.

I like your take on the life and how you are accepting all the aspects like pain and joy at the sametime. This to shall pass… Yay!!

Examples are like losing the loved ones in your life, or someone getting a disease at a young age and not able to live a proper life and so on. You could argue that as per the science that is how life works. Like if you are born you must age and die eventually. Or as per the science you can diagonse the disease and come up with an explanation on how things happens and what lead to it. My why question was more of why this is happening at the first place and absurd randomness of it. Or on philosophical level, I can’t comprehend the meaning of certain events. For example you dont even learn or improve anything from such events. And my original question was not to solve any of this for the entire universe, but how people are dealing with with such situations…

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