I wrote a blog some time ago why selfhosting email sucks

https://nx2.site/email-selfhosting

If you just want the email server for only you and your friends, or for internal messages, selfhosting email can be fun, but your main email should probably not be selfhosted.

Since I rate everything I watch for now a about 4 years, I can confirm. Arcane is one of 5 Series with 10 out of 10. (With 200+ rated items)

Would recommend 100%

Matrix is great as a discord alternative, I’d just wish it wouldn’t light my Server on fire every time I open element. Like I can live stream 4K to multiple people over that thing, but reading messages takes 30 seconds of fan screaming?

Holy fuck my dyslexia tuned “AI tidies” into something really funny

What a shit name for such a cool project

Names like this make is impossible to search for the project because there 20 million things called harmony

These guys do the real work rarely appreciated

I cannot point you to the rules, because every lemmy client is different. But if you are on the website with a desktop browser, it’s in the sidebar. I wrote a quick guide about this topic a short while ago: https://nx2.site/guide-to-the-ask-communities

This is not a technical support community

If your server is not “online” you could vpn into your home network and use it that way. Another option is to have it local, meaning for example with bit/vault-warden you can still view your passwords if you don’t have connection. But you can’t edit or add new ones

This should definitely be in bat

That’s interesting. After patch 2.0.1 didn’t fix it, I just went and installed it on Windows… sucks to have to reboot all the time though

There is no magic pill, no Silver bullet for complicated problems. Otherwise they wouldn’t be complicated. “Being a friend” is meaningless.

What you should do is ask what you can do to help (even if they answer with “nothing”). Ask what’s wrong, if they start talking ask specific questions so that they don’t just stick with the “I’m good thanks” level. Don’t go and say “I’ve had a similar situation”. Don’t list options or try to solve the problem for them

Tell them it doesn’t bother you if they bother you, so that they don’t hold back just because they want to be a good friend to you.

Now, that is what you should do if you want to help. But if it gets to much mentally for you I still recommend anyone to watch this: Optimistic Nihilism. This Video has helped me see the world in a different way has has made me basically immune to “going crazy” or grieving uncomfortably. I know that this is probably not for everyone, but it was for me.

You can’t tell me you post isn’t bait. Google motherfcker they list neo-pronouns in other languages.

I can speak for German and say:

It doesn’t work. It barely works in English, and some people already hate it there.

Basically all European languages and many more have Gender Cases. You would not only have to “invent” a pronouns, but also like 50 different endings and grammatical rules. You could just use one of the existing set endings I, but then the sentence sounds again just male, female or neutral, wich is the exact thing neo-pronouns don’t want to do.

And btw., if your “friends” call you names for not knowing such things l, they are not your friends.

I think you have it the wrong way, block lists and stuff like that is for sites like Twitter or ideas like mastodon. At least in my experience you have a better time with projects like Lemmy if you pick the communies you like and not the one you do not, and then “live” in your Subscribed feed and just peak at All from time to time

Obligatory

1 post, 0 comments, fresh account? And you post a question you already know the answer to, just to trigger “both” sides?

Common, this is not the community contribution we need…

This is literally the worst. I hate it for example on Instagram, you press on some K-pop post just to cringe a bit, and the aLgOrYtHiM thinks I now want to see K-pop 24/7

Prime gaming in single player games feels shit

So far I’ve had 5 different people, me included have this problem, all with a 2070 Super

What are you on ? (WM, DE, Runner … ) I see seem to have similar problems maybe we can work out what’s wrong