cheap excuse. there is nothing to “deconstruct” here. you can implement exactly the same anti-spam measures in a nostr relay.

i guess your problem is: you dont like competition. when i can host all the content from “your” relay, but with better moderation, then users will prefer my relay.

i see this stupid mindset all over the “warez scene”. “my release”, “my content”, “my profit”… for fucks sake, you people just as stupid as the people who write copyright laws… the only question is: stupid or evil? scriptkiddie or CIA?

now you can ban me to prove my point : D

edit: also, you seem to have a problem with free speech. looking at your modlog, where you ban people for “Misogyny” or “transphobia” or “condescending”. literally, this is worse than reddit.

please explain. me (and the nostr project) would love to hear your criticism.

also, relays are free to implement further anti-spam measures: captcha, email, phone, payment, …

It’s anti-spam strategy is wishful thinking.

huh? relays can choose to block content.

my belief is that it will crash and burn due to trying to fix something unfixable.

abuse of power is fixable through nomadic identities and signatures. your lemmy instance will “crash and burn” when you decide to pull the plug. its funny to watch people trying “more of the same”, naively hoping for the best with every iteration.

This is not a simple problem to solve and it exists nowhere online.

it is a solved problem. there are multiple implementations of the nostr protocol. nostr is newer than activitypub, so its less mature, but certainly a better foundation to build upon, ie more future-proof. nostr is similar to bittorrent: anyone can seed my content, and recipients can verify my content with my public key.

The fediverse however affords at least way more control than reddit or any forum where they can do the same and you have no options whatsoever

more control for admins, but not more control for users. i trust nobody, no admins, no moderators. sure, there are ways to archive and replicate an activitypub instance (just like reddit/twitter/facebook), but it is not a fundamental property of activitypub.

conspiracy ahead: these federated tools (activitypub, matrix chat) are “popular” because they enable censorship. nostr is promising censorship-resistance, but its not quite there yet.

I hope lemmy won’t die month later.

That’s literally impossible! An instance may go down, but it will stay cached.

not enough. the big problem with activitypub/fediverse/mastodon/pleroma/lemmy is the lack of “nomadic identities”, which would allow full replication of my account on any instance.

without nomadic identities, you have the same vendor-lockin bullshit as with reddit/twitter/facebook: when they close your account, your content is gone. when a lemmy-instance closes your account, your content is gone.

see also: https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nostr#the-problem-with-mastodon-and-similar-programs

1. chill. they will give you a short time to respond, usually just one week. ignore that, its bullshit. they will send another letter every week, increasing their demands. if they send letters with tracking, refuse to accept them, so they return to sender. they cannot prove that you got these letters.
2. ignore these idiots as long as possible. the only thing you MUST respond to is the big red letter from court, where they try to get a “title” over you, which means you MUST pay. reject their request 100%. pay them nothing.
3. maybe, if you are polite, send them a “cease and desist” letter, in german “unterlassungserklärung”, where you promise to NEVER upload that content again. but not the original version! use the version from https://www.abmahnwahn-dreipage.de/ (“modifizierte unterlassungserklärung”). use a regular letter, no need for tracking. they actually have a right to go to court for this, but they rarely do, because court is expensive.

sadly, too many germans are stupid, so they pay the “fine” (its not a fine, its just a false demand by another citizen, zivilforderung). often its children who do the filesharing, and its the stupid parents who pay the fine and then hate their kids… or these lawyers love to send these letters for filesharing of porn, in the hope of destroying the relationship between husband and wife.

this should be basic knowledge for everyone in germany, then this shit would stop, and we could simply use torrents instead of stupid OCH/usenet.

its also funny that they demand repair of damages (schadensersatz) for content which is propaganda, causing mental damage or waste of time. see also: out of shadows (2020).